I Went Inside The Secret World Of Suburban Swingers To Find Out Why The ‘Swinger Lifestyle’ Appeals To Women

May 11 2020
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by venus100

I wanted to find out what it is about swinging that keeps happily married women in the lifestyle.

“I kissed a girl and I liked it …”

So go the lyrics of Katy Perry’s classic song. And apparently, she’s not the only one. Some married women like it, too — a lot. It’s what piqued their interest in “the lifestyle” and locked them in for life.

In the first article of my two-part series on the “swinger lifestyle,” I took you behind the scenes of a DC-area swingers club, but the same questions seemed to arise for many readers.

Who are swingers and why in the world do happily married women find the swinger lifestyle so appealing?

You might imagine it’s men who are begging their wives to swing, but in many cases, it’s actually the wives who want to try swinging.

I spoke with six happily married female swingers (many are moms) and several husbands (some names have been changed), who spoke honestly about their motivations, meet-ups, and ah-ha moments.

Here is a peek into what interested them in the swinging lifestyle, and what keeps them going back for more.